Mumbai, April 4 : Actress Jenna Dewan says she lives by the motto â??We just stay calm, and we carry on,â?? and it was put to the test during a recent trip to New York City when her clothing for a full day of work didnâ??t arrive on time.

â??Iâ??ve learned that when things go a little nuts, itâ??s all going to work out,â?? she says.

â??At least I say that to myself over and over to put myself in a peaceful mindset.â??

Another thing that centers the 45-year-old mom of three is her family.

â??Thatâ??s always my No. 1 priority,â?? she says, reports people.com.

One look at her Instagram, and thatâ??s apparent: Dewan frequently shares snaps of her daughter Everly, 12, whom she shares with ex-husband Channing Tatum, cheerleading or participating in Irish dance competitions.

Other times, sheâ??s posting her two youngest, whom she welcomed with her fiance, actor Steve Kazee. Son Callum, 6, is often scoring hoops on the basketball court, and Dewan says more clips of Rhiannon, 22 months, are coming.

"I am most definitely forcing her into ballet class because itâ??s so cute,â?? she says.

â??Until she starts telling me what she likes, weâ??re going to do a little ballet.â??

Dewan jokes that she and Kazee â??did it a little backwardsâ?? by having kids before marriage, but she wouldnâ??t have it any other way: â??I donâ??t want to take the burners off at all. Iâ??m enjoying everything thatâ??s happening in my life.â??

She is also starring in The Rookie.

Dewan recalls she agreed to â??a cute little guest spotâ?? on the show in 2021 because it â??seemed fun.â?? At the time, she admits, she was â??dreamingâ?? of getting to act in a series that filmed on her home turf in Los Angeles.

â??I was doing a show in Chicago, and I was going back and forth. That was really hard on me with the kids,â?? she says.

Her wish was granted when she was asked to return to The Rookie as firefighter Bailey Nune, the love interest of lead star Nathan Fillion.

â??It was the easiest, fastest yes Iâ??ve ever given,â?? she says.

â??Itâ??s been really a huge blessing to be a part of it.â??

She says part of the show's magic is because it "blends a lot of tones really well.

"We obviously do the suspenseful procedural element, plus a lot of comedy thrown in there, and you have romance and high-caliber stunt work. I think people watch and say, 'Wait, this show's really good,' and tell others. It has a life of its own at this point."

When asked the secret to juggling it all, she said, "I don't know if there is a secret. I think the secret is that you just do the best that you can. I don't think anyone balances everything perfectly.â??

â??I think that balance is the grace to know that you're doing the best you can. There are going to be times that you're heavier on one area of your life and you got to pay it back on the other side when you're done."

Kazee also helps her in countless ways.

â??His personality and his energy are very grounding to me,â?? Dewan says of the actor, whom she first met when he was on Broadway in Once. Six years later, after her split from Tatum, Kazee reached out and asked her for coffee.

â??Thereâ??s always been a little something mystical to the two of us,â?? she says. â??There was a real meant-to-be feeling,â?? reports people.com.

The key to their dynamic is â??the awareness that we are in each otherâ??s life for growth,â?? she says. Right now, though, they donâ??t plan to change their marital status anytime soon. When asked whether theyâ??ve thought about a wedding after their six-year engagement, Dewan notes, â??We are being really in the moment and happy."

She's quick to add: "And apparently weâ??re really bad planners!"

/IANS